But if we hold fast to the grace the God has shown us ... His forgiveness ... His mercy ... we will remain in a place of thanksgiving and we'll begin to experience that grace overflowing to everyone around us ... especially our spouse and family.
Colossians 3:14-15
And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also you are called in one body; and be you thankful.
Colossians 3:19
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
Ephesians 6:4
And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.